Some people may be directly wrinkled faces when they hear the term kinky sex, which seemed referring to sexual practice where pain, pleasure, and feelings of guilt mixed into one.
According to sexology experts, today more and more couples are looking for something more in their sexual lives, and interest in sado-masochism increased.
Throughout history, the phenomenon of kinky sex appears in various myths, literature, till the science of anthropology. According to legend, Catherine the Great is believed to have''special relationship''with his horse. Meanwhile, according to research by Robert Dunlap, a sex therapist at the same time filmmaker from California, in some African cultures, the women help''lead''young boys into manhood.
Despite the mocking tone and feeling of disgust that disclosed a number of people on this phenomenon - because it was considered taboo and are beyond the reasonable limits - kinky sex seems even more popular. It was seen from the increasing number of books, films and internet sites dealing with the problem.
What is kinky?
A variety of fantasy thrown people about what is considered kinky, ranging from dominatrix, bondage, until Flogging. In the film entitled Beyond Vanilla (2001), Dunlap interviewed several people who expressed a fantasy to have sex in the backseat of a taxi, dripping wax onto the testicles, making love to wear handcuffs and blindfolds, sex by force, and so forth.
So, to the extent whether kinky sex can still be considered normal?
According to a study seksologis outer limits of the human psyche, something abnormal is not necessarily not really natural. Alfred Kinsley, a pioneer who studied the problem of sexuality in 1940 until the 1950's once said, the only unnatural sexual act is a person who could not be done.
Therefore, it is very important to create a safe arena for experimentation in sex. Each partner must have a special agreement to make them feel equally comfortable doing the activity. For example, by making sex game becomes more fun and do not seem creepy.
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